I’ve been on hormones for almost four months, look quite masculine still, but do have very long, feminine hair and wear androgynous clothes, some light makeup, etc. What I’m confused about is when to, or if I even should, mention that I’m trans before getting hired.
I’m going to take a wild guess that you sit … A LOT. Even if you have an active job where you are constantly moving, modern lifestyles still include a lot of time sitting. In the car, on a plane, at the dinner table, unwinding on the couch at night — we all sit more than we need to.
Your parents provided for you for at least two decades of your life, and your extended family helped support you in a variety of ways. So do you "owe" it to them to help them design a website? Proofread ad copy? Give legal advice?